Happiness

Happiness is the cure for everything.
Happiness cures sadness.
Happiness cures stress.
Happiness cures anger.
Happiness enlightens every aspect of your life.

Quotes from Forensic Heroes II

1. "Give more, expect less."
2. "Don't cry over what you have lost, but smile over what you had had."

once...

I once adored you so much
Until I cried when you cried
Until I smiled when you smiled
I liked you personalities,
both good and bad.
I embrace your kindness and generosity
I accept your flaws.

Though you adore that somebody,
Until you lose your sense of self.

I now despise you so much
Until I laugh when you cry
Until I cry when you smile
I hate your personalities,
both good and bad.
I hate your kindness and generosity
I love your flaws.

What have happened,
Until this change takes place?

A=A, A≠B

Make sure that you reflect on your own attitude before accusing the others of neglecting you.

The 'R' Concept

Take a look at the figure on the right.

Consider the following issues.
1. In a day, how long will you be happy and vice versa?

2. What would be the 'x' factor for you?

3. What would be the 'y' factor for you?

4. Can you decide the duration that you want to stay at 'happy' stage and vice versa?

This would be my answer.
1. Of course, I want to be happy all the times; but, it would not be possible if we hold pessimistic perspective of viewing things. However, there are those gloomy moments and discouraged times. So, it is part and parcel of life. Don't take it too hard.

2. Well, those elements that can make me turn gloomy are financial aspects, relations with people and of course, assignments.

3. The 'y' factors would be my family, my friends and actually, all the 'x' factors are my 'y' factors if they were all positive.

4. As for me, I will make attempts to keep myself as happy as I could. Nobody wants to be sad. So do I.

Anticipation

Typically, after we have planned to do something, we shall feel excited and anticipated. Our mindset and direction are very much diverted to that plan. This is one of the joy in the process of getting that thing done.

When we are carrying out the event, we ought to be positive and get involved totally so that we can enjoy to the fullest. On the other hand, we should not grumble and complain on the negative sides of the event. We should be aware of the fact that there are always two sides of a coin.

After the event has been carried out, we should do reflection on the event. Whether we gain more profit or the event has brought more negative effects are the issue that need to be considered. This serves as the yardstick whether the event should be continued or to be terminated. And, of course, the anticipation that we had before this would reduce drastically as the event had passed.

the **** poem

For value I am of use;
Unaccommodating, unappreciative and all the un's
Can kill me after I am being used
Knights cannot accommodate that they are being used,

Yet they did not say anything
Or even a grumble;
Unlike me, I complain via blog.