More often than not, we tend to expect our friends to behave in certain ways. We have such expectations because we FEEL that they are our friends. It's OK to expect them to do so. However, they are just our friends. We CAN'T expect them to fit to our needs. We can't stop them from changing. They change when their interests and commitment change. We have to ACCEPT their change and let go. Otherwise, we ourselves will suffer a lot.
In short, friends really change over time. Unless, they were your close friends and soul mates. So, just let go when it's enough. Otherwise you will lose more.
4 comments:
True! people change. We'll change too somehow. It's unavoidable. But changela for the better kan? I've seen changes I wish I didn't have to see but you were right when you say letting go is the best solution.
iboh la sdi...u ada byk gik kwn bah...hahaha
i'm always with u. just gimme a call,a sms.ok. jgn sedeyh k.
one very extremely meaningful post ive read today (yes! i'm a blog reader :P) expectations are always there, whether we realize it or not. we expect ppl, friends esp, to stay the same & it's disappointing to know that one day they'll change and that we have to let them go. but it's better to let go than suffer kan? & this i agree with u.. let go when u know it's time. don't be cold towards ur friends who changed. that way, u'll still have him as ur friend - maybe not physically. :)
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