More often than not, we shall be affected by our emotions. If we were happy, of course we shall show it without hiding it. It's just something that is uncontrollable. We shall jump and shout and laugh and hug each other like crazy.
However, if we were negatively emotional, what should we do? Put everything on the face until the people who are in good mood turn sad as well? In fact, we understand that it is inevitable that people are feeling down sometimes. It's not wrong to express your sorrow and sadness. However, we should not let the sorrow and sadness empower us for a long time. That would be very annoying. Our friends, of course, would try their best to comfort us. But, let's put ourselves in our friends' shoes. After they have comforted us with different ideas and effort, we are still facing them with our sour face. What would our friends feel?
Of course, sometimes, it's not easy to climb back to the peak of the mountain after you had fallen into the deep valley. However, at least, we should respond to our friends, if not sincerely, to show their importance to us. (This is not particularly address to anybody. This is merely my observation at the cafe tonight. So, don't get me wrong.)
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i understand. i've been in this situation too before. being the one with the sour face and being the one who comforted the sour-faced boy or girl... haha! ;p controlling their emotions do not come easy for some people. but then again, we cannot blame it solely on that fact. controlling your emotions is actually a skill that you need to master in life. but, do not go to the extend that you keep everything bottled up inside just because you don't want to let your feelings show. kelak meletup gunung berapi, lava melimpah-limpah keluar... that's not emotion-control... that's proses pembikinan gunung berapi, hehe... ;p
haha...lawak ina...how i wish everybody can be always happy and free from negative emotions...=)
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i wish the same thing too, siew bin =) but without those negative emotions, we would not know what happy and positive emotions are :)
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