Another perspective of live

Let me begin with this entry by asking you a question. How would you react or deal with the elements or the things that you fear or those which are sensitive to you? I believe most of you, including me, will try inside out to avoid to face them. Am I right? But, are you sure that is the correct way to deal with it? Sometimes, yes. Leave alone the general political sensitive issues such as racial and political perspectives. I am referring to those which you personally feel awkward with. For example, you are quarreling with your spouse. Would you avoid him or her or would you rather talk face to face to sort it out? When you feel bad about your friends, would you talk to his face? When you farted in the train, would you admit it? When you accidentally know that your friends have a misunderstanding about you, would you approach your friend to clarify?

If you avoided those issues and preferred not to discuss such so-called sensitive issue, indeed, this will lead to a miserable and unbearable life. Therefore, my personal principal is that "When you like that something, keep liking it; when you fear that something, overcome it." As long as you encounter things that impede you to have a happy life, sort it out. Don't drag it until it becomes an obstacle for you to obtain a happy life.

Of course, having the ability to do this is not as easy. We need to be wise and resourceful. We might need our close friends' opinions or even the professional views from the experts. Since that is our personal problems, we are responsible to solve it. For sure, our close friends would be happy to lend a helping hand. In addition, while helping us, our friends would gain experience in handling such problems for the future use.

Let me stop making this entry lengthy. So, the extract of this entry would be :If you liked that something, keep liking it; if you feared that something, overcome it. Ultimately, you are immune to anything!