once...

I once adored you so much
Until I cried when you cried
Until I smiled when you smiled
I liked you personalities,
both good and bad.
I embrace your kindness and generosity
I accept your flaws.

Though you adore that somebody,
Until you lose your sense of self.

I now despise you so much
Until I laugh when you cry
Until I cry when you smile
I hate your personalities,
both good and bad.
I hate your kindness and generosity
I love your flaws.

What have happened,
Until this change takes place?