i have many friends that are doing long distance dating. Unfortunate enough, none of them succeeded in the relationsip. Their relationships ended up with broken up. What do you think of the factors that lead to this?
In my observation, it is always the third party that ruins the relationship between the two. The concern here is that is that can the third party being accused as guilty? Or is it that the long distance dating is not stable and will always end up with breaking up? Personally, i think the third part is the one to be blamed. Why should they interrupt a relationship among the two? Maybe some will blame it on the unstable relationship between the two. But, bear in mind that, though the relationship between the two is very strong and stable, it will be affected in any manner if the third party keeps on interrupting the relationship.
I personally feel pity for the couples that end up with breaking up. They are in love with each other. Just that their relationship is disturbed by the third party. And, of course, distance is another issue here.
3 comments:
wow robin...long distance duhal...but i agree wif u...tapi kan, stimes the thrid party gets involved coz the person is lonely and he or she needs someone when his or her partner is apart...but i agree that long distance is very hard...sian kan??
long distance hoo... susah ehh!! it's hard to trust the other half. n then, third party always merosakkan hubungan orang lain. sak ati! btw, this is Dalila~
Emm.. I dunno la.. 远距离恋爱，这算是对于一对情侣的爱情的一种考验吧。如果他们真的深爱彼此，那么就算出现第三者也不会有问题。倘若其中一方那么轻易就被考验所考倒了，那也只能够分手了。我有个问题想不通。。那就是，‘第三者 ’有没有想过：一个会因为距离而提出分手的人值得信赖吗？自己会不会有一天也遭到‘被人分’的分手命运呢？
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