Human beings are very good at adapting to something. After you adviced your friend several times with convincing facts and points, that means you have done your part as friend. You cannot do anything beyond that because that is beyond your ability already. If he did not take your advice into consideration or make any change, we, as friend, just need to adapt to his stubborness. It does not mean that you accept or agree with what he is doing, but, since you cannot do anything about it, so the only thing you can do is just adapt to it.
If he is really dying to do something that is against the social norm and even religious view, what you can do is giving up of him (because he does not want to listen to your advice) or if you want, is to 'bless' him in a way.
I am very tired of advicing him already. So, i can assure you that there will be no blog which is grumbling about him anymore in the future.
1 comment:
if that person don't want to listen to you, juz ignore the issue. that person wanna deal it himself. as friends, we can't force our friends to make the decisions, we're there to accompany. not become their parents.
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