Very often, we will get comments from people around us. The comments san be either positive or negative. We will feel like in senventh heaven if we get the positive ones. How about the negative ones? Can we take it constructively?
In fact, the comments are given after their close observation. Therefore, the comments are somehow true. It's just that we are not conscious about it. Let's take an example. If somebody said you are growing bigger. Of course the person concerned will not say that out of nothing. Therefore, it might be true that you are growing bigger. Let me remind you that, of course, you will get angry upon receiving negative comments. But, just sit back and reflect on the comment. If you find it's nonsensical, just ignore it. If you were aware that there is truth lying behind the comment, take action to make people stop making such comment on you!
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i like this entry~! very wise of you, robin~ i often listen to what people have to say about me. reflect upon it and change if i have to. it's all about learning about life, give and take. i usually am frank to people around me. i hope they'll do the same to me.
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